A Significant Reputation

    “. . .(A)nd let her works praise her in the gates” (Proverbs 31:31).

Some days are ponder days, and this weekend I had one of those days. As I thought about my accomplishments in comparison to what I still have yet to do, I lamented a bit. My ministry has not had the far-reaching impact that I expected. And as I thought about not having a broader audience like some of my secular counterparts, I heard the Lord say, “You want success and not significance.” Immediately I received the correction. The impact I wanted came with fame; the impact that is necessary comes with a making a positive difference.

Some months ago I learned a good deal about the difference between success and significance. My pastor, Christopher W. Brooks, preached a message on this, warning Christians that our lives should not be about seeking fame and being successful according to the world’s standard of obtaining money and material items and being well-known; we must be about changing lives for Christ’s sake, starting within our own homes.

This was the success of the Proverbs 31 woman. She took care of her husband, children and maids. Because she looked “well to the ways of her household” and was a hard worker, she had a good reputation; her work taking care of her home—a small audience—garnered her praise in her hometown. As I reviewed Pastor Brooks’ message, I understood more what God was telling me: I didn’t want what I already had; I wanted what someone else had. And what I have is significance because I am making a positive influence in the lives of those in my sphere, the gates that He has me within.

I’m not saying that we should shun money, material items or popularity. But our emphasis should be on accomplishing the goals God has given to us, and these goals always start with taking care of home. This is the greatest area of significance. This gives you a good reputation.

Copyright 2009 by Rhonda J. Smith


4 responses to “A Significant Reputation

  1. Rosemerry Allen

    Thank you Minister Rhonda for affirming what the bible teaches of our roles as Godly women. Our priorities must start in our homes because charity begins there. We can enjoy what God has given us on earth but our treasures should be stored in heaven which surpasses all earthly fame and fortune.

  2. musingsofastrongblackwoman

    Sister Rosemerry,

    Thanks for the encouragement and your comments, which add to the discussion and give us more to think about.

  3. Sister, I know I know. I am quite tardy with reading this post, but it was STILL a blessing! Thank you so much for your gift. I have admired and appreciated it since we were little kids. Thanks for keeping it real, and saying what so many other people only think! I love you much!

  4. musingsofastrongblackwoman

    Thanks, Sister. I appreciate you taking the time.

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